CalBearGuy This depends on what you want to Be as a necro: straight dps, mixing it up, or all of the above.
Never put anything into charisma, stat wise.
Stamina is a good stat to put points into, as we're short on Health overall and you won't reach the Hard Cap, let alone the Soft Cap, of Stamina. It's never a bad idea...but again, it goes back to what you want to do with the class and your role at lvl 60.
Side Note: Negative Charisma was NEVER a part of the formula for Old EQ, just rumors and assumptions.
MnM attempted to follow that thread, yet quickly realized it was fruitless and more trouble than it was worth.
Deity choices are yet TBD..but there is one zone where it bears fruit, currently.